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Will You…

Will you take my hand if I ask you out, Cos my tongue keeps failing me while my heart for you beats out Will you say yes if my tongue commits Cos I know I’d love you forever if your heart permits Will you look for me when […]

The Man named P!

    Our friend, our brother – the one we called P!   “Fred! Fred!! Deola is dead! Fred, Piero is dead”!!!   Everything froze at this moment. Like what? I just had a chat like 2 days ago with P! It’s been a long journey trying to […]


The Six Stages of Social Deception… Social Deception very often is a process by which wrong becomes right, and right becomes wrong. It’s a complete paradigm shift of opinions, standards and morals that is achieved softly, subtly and often takes a generation to entrench into society. Those who […]

Home Truth to Guide you

“A friend of mine crossed 50. I asked him what’s changing? He sent me following lines.”   Yes, I am changing. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started loving myself.   Yes, I am changing. I just realized that […]

A Pill Please

A Pill Please: A Poetic Charge A pill for the pain. The ache I feel deep in my poor heart. My eye has seen…my ears full. Of these obscenities. These infirmities of scenes from the horrendous news reports of the madmen residing in the palaces. They are not […]


We have gone over this topic on Wednesday and Thursday, This is the concluding part which you can read up and enjoy.. How to overcome the effect of a dysfunctional family In addition to other solutions, the following may be helpful   Learn to identify and express emotion: […]


*The Dysfunctional Family continues today if you missed it check the previous day’s post   The people pleaser As a result of being neglected, you fear disappointing people. You go to great lengths to maintain your relationship with them. You grow with the belief that if you are […]


LIVING IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY ‘My dad’s an alcoholic. I was always afraid to invite other kids for fear of not wanting them to see what my family was like. I never really got close to people, now I don’t seem to know how to let others get […]